I have been looking for the answer for a while by reading some books and articles. Regardless the arguments about what is right and wrong about white men dating black women, I would rather to share you the reasons why are white men dating black women.
I have heard many reasons from people who have done this, for instance, black women have such unique and exotic appearance which intrigue white men to make love with them. Some folks have humbler reasons. They think that black women are traditionally kind. And yet there are many people who love the physical appearances of black women. It is said that black women have beautiful body, lips, and exotic skins. But that’s not all. Each black woman has their own attractive physical features. One thing for sure that most people agree is that black women are usually very sexual.
It is not exaggerating for white men looking for black women that it is the stereotypes. These reasons are commonly found in white men dating black women. But actually it is not the only case. Have you heard about the proverb which says “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”? So I can say that most of the reasons above fail to answer the real individual’s reason. It is because no matter how people look on the black women, you will always have different point of view with them. Not to mention that many cities around the world have become more vibrant and interracial dating is widely accepted. This narrows down the last time social gaps between different races.
When it comes to white men looking for black women, there is no exact science can explain this phenomena. I can say this because many different opinions and judgement are made of different point of views and principles. Black women basically have differences in term of attractions. Despite of the black women inferiority in some parts of the world, white men start to realize that it is not a reason anymore to deny the existence of interracial dating. As mentioned before, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So, many people come up with the reason that “black” does not indicate the color difference. It is just a tag which compliment the overall individual values.
So, there is nothing wrong with white men dating black women.